Suicide Silence guitarist Mark Heylmun took the time to reflect on the 14th anniversary of the passing of his Suicide Silence bandmate Mitch Lucker. The influential deathcore vocalist tragically died in the early hours of November 01st, 2012 after being involved in a motorcycle accident that took place on Halloween night of that year. Newly looking back on social media today, November 01st, Heylmun said of his fallen friend:
“I don’t have any more pictures of Mitch and me to share. I’ve shared them all at one point or another.
The more time that passes since he’s been gone, the more I find where the grief of his passing lives. I only knew him as a friend for seven years. Memories fade, and while the memory of him never fades, the memories of the times we spent together do.
I cherish all the big moments we had. All the trips we took together, tours, festivals, press tours, “pretty good for a small shitty ass show” shows, the holiday BBQs at his house, or the times he crashed on my parents’ couch and spent time with my dad ripping cigs on the front porch. The list goes on.
But it’s the little stuff that makes me dig deep and wonder about all the things I’ve forgotten. The AIM messages, MySpace messages, phone calls, conversations after practice, late-night talks on tour, jokes in the studio, or the arguments we got into.
All the stuff that seemed so insignificant at the time seems so important to me now. I wish I could have been more grateful and more present for that special time in my life, and in our lives. It literally hurts thinking about the memories lost.
I’m grateful today to have known Mitch the way I did. I’m grateful to see how he’s reached “Legendary” status. He deserves all the respect he gets because he is the GOAT.
So, on this anniversary of my friend being gone for twice as long as I even knew him, I want to challenge everyone to slow down and love your life.
I don’t care how bad you have it or how great you have it. Just try and find the love. You don’t know who’s going to be here tomorrow, and you definitely don’t know who’s going to be here 14 years from now.
RIP Mitch. Love you dude.”
