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Tim Lambesis Speaks On As I Lay Dying’s Memphis, TN Show Being Cancelled Amid Public Outcry


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As I Lay Dying frontman Tim Lambesis has taken to social media to speak on the recent cancellation of the band’s show in Memphis, TN amid public outcry over his involvement. Lambesis‘ return with As I Lay Dying has been polarizing for many given his criminal past.

Lambesis went to jail after having attempted to hire a hitman to kill his estranged wife back in 2013. He pled guilty to a charge of solicitation of another to commit murder and was eventually paroled in December of 2016.

While Lambesis has spoken out against his past actions, there are those who feel he doesn’t deserve another chance. As such, community outcry over the band being booked at the Memphis, TN venue Growlers recently saw the band’s show there cancelled, with plans to hold a local benefit show for victims of domestic violence on the date instead.

Likewise, the band were also pulled from the ‘Resurrection Festival‘ bill due to similar public outcry. Speaking via his Instagram on the matter, Lambesis stated:

“While I’m disappointed by the cancellation of our show in Memphis, I understand and accept the resentment some people have towards who I used to be. I stand against that person I became during the darkest period of my past, and it is part of my life’s work to prevent others from going down destructive paths. It’s now been almost six (6) years since I made the biggest mistake of my life, and I consider each day an opportunity to do something positive to turn my life around and to use my experience to help others.

As I move forward with this purpose I know there will be obstacles. However, I wish we could have come up with a more meaningful solution for the fans in Memphis rather than just cancel. Perhaps I could visit a recovery center in Memphis, a free event to our fans + those being served at the center, where I can open up for Q&A and all questions are welcome.

I look forward to continuing this conversation around recovery, how to prevent others from ending up in a bad place, and how to facilitate healing in the lives of people who have been hurt by others. I welcome the opportunity to address the topic of domestic violence and how I am not on the opposing side of this critical issue.

Since serving my time I’ve been involved in the following:
• Completed all of the courses necessary to become an addiction treatment counselor in the state of California with hopes of helping others who are struggling with addiction and mental health.
• Worked for a year as a case manager at an addiction treatment facility.
• Spent two years tutoring inmates who never finished high school. Education is the greatest tool we currently have for breaking the criminal cycle of repeat offenders.
• I currently visit prisons quarterly to help inmates without job skills train for their release so that they can become productive neighbors and not a burden on society. Most end up back in prison due to lack of hope or a support system.

Through AILD, our recent tours have allowed us the opportunity to donate proceeds of sales to organizations that help others—notably Heart Support and families affected by the California fires…

Thanks to our fans connecting with this message, we were able to become one of Heart Support’s main contributors (https://heartsupport.com/). We strongly believe in their objective to offer emotional support and counseling to young adults caught in cycles of depression, abuse, and addiction, and will continually support charities that further the process of healing for others.

By listing all of the above, it’s not my intention to gain praise or recognition. I simply want to make sure it’s clear how seriously I take all of these issues.

Throughout my four year incarceration and release, I’ve sought meaningful personal change and surrounded myself with family, friends, and counsel. I’m grateful to have earned the support of my bandmates, my wife, family, and fans who’ve also given me this chance. I will continue to move forward in my personal mission to help others and make a positive impact in the world around me, knowing there will be challenges, and believing that the next half of my life will be more meaningful than the first.

I look forward to continuing a discussion around recovery, mental health, domestic violence and prisoner reform for many years to come.”

As I Lay Dying will be touring this spring with the following dates booked:

03/15 St. Louis, MO – Pops
03/16 Peoria, IL. – Monarch
03/17 Joliet, IL – The Forge
03/18 Louisville, KY – Diamond Concert Hall
03/19 Detroit, MI – St. Andrews Hall
03/20 Rochester, NY – The Montage Music Hall
03/21 Sayreville, NJ – Starland Ballroom
03/22 Poughkeepsie, NY – The Chance
03/23 Providence, RI – Fete Ballroom
03/24 New Haven, CT – Toad’s Place
03/25 Baltimore, MD – Baltimore SoundStage
03/26 Greensboro, NC – Blind Tiger
03/27 Columbia, SC – The Senate
03/29 Tampa, FL – Orpheum
03/30 Jacksonville, FL – 1904
03/31 Pensacola, FL – Vinyl Music Hall
04/02 Baton Rouge, LA – Varsity Theater
04/03 Birmingham, AL – Zydeco
04/04 Nashville, TN – Exit/In
04/06 Springfield, MO – The Complex

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While I’m disappointed by the cancellation of our show in Memphis, I understand and accept the resentment some people have towards who I used to be. I stand against that person I became during the darkest period of my past, and it is part of my life's work to prevent others from going down destructive paths. It's now been almost six (6) years since I made the biggest mistake of my life, and I consider each day an opportunity to do something positive to turn my life around and to use my experience to help others. As I move forward with this purpose I know there will be obstacles. However, I wish we could have come up with a more meaningful solution for the fans in Memphis rather than just cancel. Perhaps I could visit a recovery center in Memphis, a free event to our fans + those being served at the center, where I can open up for Q&A and all questions are welcome. I look forward to continuing this conversation around recovery, how to prevent others from ending up in a bad place, and how to facilitate healing in the lives of people who have been hurt by others. I welcome the opportunity to address the topic of domestic violence and how I am not on the opposing side of this critical issue. Since serving my time I’ve been involved in the following: • Completed all of the courses necessary to become an addiction treatment counselor in the state of California with hopes of helping others who are struggling with addiction and mental health. • Worked for a year as a case manager at an addiction treatment facility. • Spent two years tutoring inmates who never finished high school. Education is the greatest tool we currently have for breaking the criminal cycle of repeat offenders. • I currently visit prisons quarterly to help inmates without job skills train for their release so that they can become productive neighbors and not a burden on society. Most end up back in prison due to lack of hope or a support system. Through AILD, our recent tours have allowed us the opportunity to donate proceeds of sales to organizations that help others—notably Heart Support and families affected by the California fires… (CONTINUED IN NEXT POST)

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PART 2 CONTINUED… Thanks to our fans connecting with this message, we were able to become one of Heart Support’s main contributors (https://heartsupport.com/). We strongly believe in their objective to offer emotional support and counseling to young adults caught in cycles of depression, abuse, and addiction, and will continually support charities that further the process of healing for others. By listing all of the above, it's not my intention to gain praise or recognition. I simply want to make sure it's clear how seriously I take all of these issues. Throughout my four year incarceration and release, I’ve sought meaningful personal change and surrounded myself with family, friends, and counsel. I’m grateful to have earned the support of my bandmates, my wife, family, and fans who’ve also given me this chance. I will continue to move forward in my personal mission to help others and make a positive impact in the world around me, knowing there will be challenges, and believing that the next half of my life will be more meaningful than the first. I look forward to continuing a discussion around recovery, mental health, domestic violence and prisoner reform for many years to come.

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